‘Hey, tell me something. If someone is asking me out on a date then, what is he expecting?’
Haha…Interesting! What makes you think that I’m competent to answer this question?
‘Arey…you are a guy and you seem to have a lot of experience!’
Seem to! Haha. Okay. So here’s the thing…when a guy asks you out on a date, he has two main reasons. One, he wants to sleep with you eventually. Second, he wants to do so immediately. You need to determine if it is the first kind of guy or the second, and determine what you want. And hey…I’m obviously exaggerating to make a point.
‘Hmmm…I’m not sure, but if I have to, then I think he would be the first kind. As of now I have told him that I don’t understand the concept of dating…so lets hang out as friends.’
Look. This guy likes you obviously. You are pretty, good to talk to, etc etc…who wouldn’t want to go out on a date with you! And to be honest, it’s not that big a thing. It allows one to explore each other and the relationship potential better. When meeting only as friends, you are unable to cover many factors, especially viewing each other romantically. It is important; to be loved is a good feeling.
‘Hhmm…thanks! That’s precisely why I asked you – knew I’ll get good advice.’
It is all theory, sweetheart! Take practical advice – date me too alongside!
*So typical you*